Holy Fantasies:
Breaking Lies Christian Women Baptize As God’s Will
Many Christian women believe they are discerning God’s voice in relationships when, in reality, their hearts are trying to heal wounds they do not yet recognize.
Holy Fantasies exposes how longing, emotional intensity, and misplaced hope can be mistaken for God’s direction. This book invites women into clarity, healing, and deeper trust in the God who rewrites broken stories.
If you have ever wrestled with whether a relationship was truly from God, this book will help you find clarity.
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About The Book
Many Christian women love God deeply and sincerely desire to follow His will in relationships. Yet countless women quietly carry the confusion and heartbreak of believing a relationship was “God-sent,” only to watch that story unravel.
Holy Fantasies was written to bring clarity to this often unspoken struggle. Through biblical wisdom, lived experience, and honest reflection, Christina reveals the deeper patterns that can cause sincere women of faith to mistake emotional attachment, coincidence, or intensity for God’s leading.
Rather than leaving women stuck in regret or shame, this book invites readers into healing, renewed discernment, and a deeper trust in the God who faithfully restores what heartbreak tried to take.
About The Author
Christina B. Ferreira is a Christian life coach, speaker, author and founder of The Coaching Haven. She helps women heal from heartbreak, rebuild discernment, and rediscover their identity in Christ.
After walking through her own season of confusion and heartbreak in relationships she once believed were “God-sent,” she began recognizing the same struggles in the lives of other Christian women. What began as personal healing eventually grew into a calling to help women untangle emotional attachment from true discernment.
Through her coaching, teaching, and writing, Christina guides women toward clarity, healing, and renewed confidence in God’s voice.
Holy Fantasies is the fruit of that journey.
Her books are published through
The Coaching Haven Press
Endorsements
“Holy Fantasies is one of the most needed books of this generation… truth wrapped in compassion, clarity anchored in Scripture, and healing offered with tenderness”
— Pastor Manuel Pereira
Lead Pastor, King of Kings Christian Church
“With both conviction and gentleness, Christina creates a safe space for Christian women to uncover hidden hurts and confront the lies their hearts may have believed about love and marriage”
— Michelle Sarpong
Founder, She Will Be Made Whole
“In a culture filled with noise and spiritual language that often lacks discernment, this book offers something rare: wisdom rooted in truth, humility, and obedience to God’s leading”
— Pastor Alex Lappos
Pastor & Ministry Leader
“This book gently dismantles spiritualized illusions about relationships and replaces them with understanding and freedom”
— Joy Nwokoro
Tent Singles & Married Ministry
What Readers Are Saying
“In Holy Fantasies, Christina presents a nuanced examination of the interplay between theological anthropology and basic psychological processes.
Her argument aligns closely with the biblical witness that human thought is not morally neutral but spiritually formative, as affirmed in Proverbs 4:23: ‘Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.’
Christina’s treatment of fantasy as both a spiritual and cognitive phenomenon is particularly insightful. She warns that persistent indulgence in imagined desires can distort one’s perception of reality, leading to spiritual and psychological disorientation.
As a scholar in Biblical Studies, I find her contribution both timely and necessary. I strongly recommend this text for Christian educators, ministry leaders, and congregations committed to holistic discipleship.”
— Carmen Paris, Biblical Studies Theologian
“Christina has written something truly exceptional in Holy Fantasies. While her tone is warm and accessible, she doesn’t shy away from the deep, often uncomfortable work of soul-searching.
I came to realize that a ‘holy fantasy’ isn’t limited to romance. It can show up in our jobs, our family dynamics, and even our ministry.
This is a rare book that is both deeply thoughtful and incredibly easy to read. If you feel like you’re chasing a vision that never seems to materialize, this book will help you understand why—and guide you back to what’s real.”
— Natasha L.
“WOW. This book hit home for me. It felt like I was waking up to the reality I’m now living, healing.
Every chapter spoke directly to my mind and my heart. I saw myself in so many parts of this book… I honestly thought I was crazy for thinking certain ways, but this book put language to it.
The reflection questions, prayers for discernment, and declarations at the end of each chapter were such a gift.
This was more than a book to me. I needed it.”
— Marina M.
Continue The Journey
If the message of this book resonated with you, the journey does not have to end here.
Christina also shares teachings, insights, and conversations for women who are navigating healing, discernment, and identity in Christ.
To continue the conversation, connect with her on Instagram. If you are ready to begin your own healing journey, send the word “HEALED” in a direct message.
Don’t have Instagram? You can start the conversation here instead.